Formula of succes

Formula of success - know urself -> Set goal(m/d/y) -> believe -> do & fill positive stuffs in ur bucket and throw away negative stuffs

I'm also one normal guy who want to suceed in life. For 3 years, I tried to find the meaning of life, formula of happiness, and formula of success. I think those are all I want to know so far. I'm not a smart person, so I struggle along the way to try to understand all of those aspects.

Today, I listen to the show call "Surivipa" in Thailand on Youtube. The guest of the show is a successful $30milllion business man who still be an normal office guy on his 26th year body but when he turned to 30, he became $30 million business man. How? mostly believe, be positive, do it correctly, and has specific goal. His formula of success = Past 0%+Present 100% + Future 0%. I answered this formula right because I've studied a lots about this and realized how important of every second in life. Every second in life is my present which means my present change every millisecond. The present millisecond is the answer of your next millisecond so called "Future." After I watched the show, it reminds me how forgetful I am. I always forgot the important element or old thing that I learned in the past although I knew it really well. That's why I said I'm not smart.

Many year ago, I was a negative person who love to say negative, saw negative, thought negative, and not even know that what i was doing. These actions created tons of junk in my mind(still thought I was positive). On the other hand, I'm also not a person who throw shit to other people. I care people and try to be better person in society. Therefore, I don't have the place to throw the junk that I created to which make me feel so confused and uncomfortable to myself. Nonetheless, I was negative, forgetful, lost person who thought he was positive and be a good person several years ago.

Also, I know that to be a successful person, you have to be creative. This part also take me many years to figure out how these things work. I studied so much about creativity because I love arts and arts are all about creativity. Creativity related to positive. However, positive need some causes to make it happen. You can't just know the theory but you have to practice. To me, I chose to avoid negative stuffs instead because I still can't be positive all the time but I still keep believing that I can be better but I found that the truth is truth. I saw somebody get lost by believing in the thing that not true, such as, a trans gender in Thailand who got strong believe that he's a women while actually he was born as a man body. He/she insisted that he is 100% to accomplish her goal (to use Ms. in her ID card). That's too strong believe for me! I understand why she has to do but that's not the belief I'm talking. It has to be belief like "Human can go to the moon or cellphone etc." That's what I'm talking about! Belief can really make something from impossible to possible. No one think you can do but it doesn't mean it is impossible but also doesn't mean believe to lie to yourself. That's why you have to know yourself in realistic way first and also have to make sure that you know who you are by checking from people around you if your real self and perceive self is the same. When you know what you love (not just like) and what you're designed for, you believe in the right way, and you keep doing it, nothing can't stop you from success. Belief is another power that can help you pass through the problems along the way. You can see power of believes from numerous stories around the world. Sometimes, they lose. Sometimes, they win. If you study in depth. You will found that just believe is not enough. You also need knowledge and do it right methods also.

BTW, this is the formula that take me many years to create. As the last paragraph, I told you the first step of my success formula which is to know your own path because if you don't know the right destination, you'll never arrive. The next step is to set goal. I set the goal for myself but I didn't do enough. I set my goal that I want to be a great movie director but I never set deadline. This is wrong. For anybody who are in the same situation, if you are not set specific goal in your life. Your motivation will decrease as the time goes by." I'm so grateful to the this person, people who upload this show and the show. This how reminded me the importance element of success "Specific Goal." As my psychology taught me. I realized how important of the goal to motivation. I really understand but I missed little but big value bit of information which is deadline. You have to be specific with it. I had goals but they don't have any deadline. "When" is really be a big push after I realized. My goal has very good detail in it. I knew what style specifically but I don't set goal when. Wow! I can't believe that just the word WHEN is so important to the drive in me. Thus, You should have lots of details with your goal and do it consistently. Little by little everyday. This will be a little push for to to accomplish goal life goal faster. As long as, you never stop to walk forward. You'll arrive your destination anyway. Oh be realistic with your specific goal as well.

Another problem, I love to learn and think so much until one of my teacher (monk) give me a really good sentence. He said "Thing's difficult because of thinking and thing happens because of doing." When I rethink about this sentence, I understand how this "too much thinking" habit suck my motivation. I saw my negative thinking in the past such as wow this is hard!, there are so many things to do! All of these sentences kill my motivation. Hence, I recommend to follow the Nike campaign "Just do it!" Nevertheless, there are many obstacles along the way of success. The obstacles come from many ways. I think problem along the way come from two sources; outside and inside. Outside is from people around you, environment etc. Inside comes from yourself. your mind will constantly develop negative, neutral, and positive thoughts. Positive and neutral is great but not negative. If you know how to handle negative, you'll be fine but how? It is the tool call "mindfulness or Sati in Thai." All these things happen naturally. The more you hate negative, the worse result you will get. You just have to see how these thing work and stop feed the negative power by just watching and learning. Now negative becomes your teacher. When you understand it, nothing can stop you from success. I hope that this article will help somebody who face the same situation as me. I don't know if I will have another revised of this article. Good Luck everybody.

This is longer than I thought, should be some errors that make you confused (my bad English+I didn't check error).
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Best wishes,

CrazyKav :)